Talib is one who seeks further spiritual knowledge after becoming mureed and is willing to follow murshid’s instructions where now murshid is called matlub. Every talib is given instructions individually and is dealt with separately. To some, matlub keeps them closer and trains, others he keeps them far away. But every talib should not think that matlub does not care for them or not love them. Whatever matlub instructs is for the betterment of that talib and it will take talib out of troubles. In every instruction of matlub there is hidden meaning which talib may understand it later.
Be tolerant. Tolerance has great rewards. The more tolerant you are more profitable you are. Have faith in your murshid every thing will be well. He knows all , he will guide you, sometimes thru dreams. Just keep strong believe and remember your murshid, and whatever instructions he has given you follow that and engage yourself in zikr, fikr (fikr is worry- to be concerned all the time to move ahead in spiritual world). All you have to do is try with good intentions rest is up to matlub. He will get you across. Develop strength within your self and try to make your destiny, though it may seem tough.
One woman’s husband was sick some one told her to go to a certain dervish and get honey from him. She took a small bowl to the dervish and asked for honey but the dervish gave her the whole mushk (mushk is big long container to hold liquids). One person sitting there asked “dervish why did you give her the whole mushk of honey when she asked for a small bowl.” Dervish answered she asked according to her need and I gave according to my status.
Even we ask for little but we get lot more.
We never realize blessings of life. We always complain of grief.
We hear lot of good things with concentration and are influenced by it but only for fifteen minutes. After that the effect wears out and the worldly matter conquest our mind. If Lord only asks about our namaz, what answer do we have? For us that one inquiry is enough. Allah will say some namaz that we have performed are wasted and others are calling out, and some namaz that we performed on behalf of others have little weight, now give answer!!!!
In all the world’s population now those deserve to be in heaven are only the Auliyas (saints).